3 QUESTIONS TO REFRAME YOUR LIFE PERSPECTIVE

1. What could I have done differently to get a better outcome?

Giving up control is not good, so always look for the things that you can control in any situation. There's always something, and those things are the levers. By focusing on the levers you could have pulled differently, so paint a picture for how to find success next time. Don't waste time thinking about what you wish the other person had done differently, because that you can't control.

2. What skills that I don't currently possess would have allowed me to get what I wanted out of this situation?

It is useful to focus on learning. It frames any situation not as permanent failure, but as a temporary failure in the skill set. Failures of skill set can always be remedied through focused attention and effort and those are two things we all control.

3. What lesson do i choose to learn from this failure?

It is not what you look at that matters, it is what YOU see. When something goes wrong (or right), you have to decide what you're going to see in that. Are you going to learn that you're an idiot or the world is against you, OR are you going to learn that you're amazing for having the guts to try something, but realize that you need a new skill in your tool belt? That subtle shift will make all difference in your life. "Henry David Thoreau"

HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR LIFE

Jim Rohn list

1. Productivity: you won't be happy if you don't produce. The tip of life isn't to rest. Sure, we most rest, but only long enough to gather strength to get back to productivity.

2. Good friends: friendship is probably the greatest support system in the world, so don't deny yourself the time to develop it.

3. Culture: music, traditions, language, dress. All of that is so vitally important that you must keep it alive.

4. Spirituality : It helps to form the foundation of the family that builds the nation. And make sure you study, practice and teach.

5. Don't miss anything: don't miss anything, not the game, the performance, the movie, the dance.

6. Your family and the inner circle: invest in them and they'll invest in you. Take care of the details with your inner circle.

HOW TO BE RICH AND A GOOD PERSON

The formula notes that we eliminate our bad traits such as hatred, envy and selfishness by developing love for all humanity and the reader is prompted to repeat to themselves that....a negative actitude toward others can never bring me success.